Looking sexy is every woman’s prerogative. However, it is very easy to cross the line into inappropriate. A neckline plunges too deep, a skirt hugs too tight, and pants may hang way too low. How do you incorporate sexy clothing into your regular outfit routine without going overboard? Read these tips and find out.
First, keep your panty and bra lines from bulging, riding up or peeking out of your clothes. This is an imperative rule for every look, occasion and time frame! Finding well-fitting undergarments is the key to this. Unnecessary bulges or rolls created by pieces that are too tight are unattractive. If you are wearing white or light colored clothing, make sure that your undergarments are as close to your skin color as possible. You do not want people to be able to see your underwear through your outerwear.
At work, being sexy while keeping a level of professionalism can be tricky. A fitted shirt shows off your shape while covering you up. Do not have the buttons undone too low, otherwise you are revealing too much. Unbutton until right above your cleavage and wear a delicate pendant for an inviting yet classy look. Pair with a fitted peplum skirt that skims right below the knee and sensible heels. Slim slacks that sit at your natural waist that show off your shape without being too tight are a nice alternative to the skirt.
When you are on a date, you want to look attractive, of course! What woman wouldn’t? But you do not want to look like you are trying too hard. Skinny jeans with a flowy top and heels are perfect for a casual date. Make sure your jewellery is simple. A small chain worn around your neck and one thick bangle is enough. A chiffon scarf that you can wrap around you gives you a covered-yet-uncovered look. For cooler weather, a pashmina can do the trick.
A night out at the clubs means looking your very best. You want to look hot, yet appropriate. A good rule for this is to pick a feature and highlight that. Do not draw attention to all of them at once. For example, if you want to show off your legs, wear a short dress with a sensible neckline. If you pick a top with a plunging neckline, make sure your legs are covered, or at least to the knee. If you want to show off your stomach, wear a crop top with long pants. Do not overdo the makeup. While special nights out call for fancy makeup, keep it classy. Like with your clothes, pick one feature and highlight it. If you draw attention to your eyes with emerald eyeshadow and cat eyeliner, then make sure your lips are in a nude or light color. Bright red lips call for natural eye makeup
The first thing that will draw a mans attention to you is your confidence. A man loves a woman with a high level of self-confidence. He finds it very sexy and a huge turn on. A woman who knows who she is and exactly what she wants, now that’s the ultimate turn on.
The second thing men find sexy is when a woman saves a little for the imagination. Its OK to show a little bit of skin, but don’t overdo it. Let him guess what you have under that dress. Trust me, he finds that sexy. If everything is just laid out there for him to see then what’s the point in him paying you any attention? After all everything he wants to see is laid out on a platter for him. So please, save a little for the imagination.
The third thing men find sexy is a nice smile. So many women walk around with a mean look on their face and then they wonder why no one ever comes up to talk to them. Put a smile on your face, men really do love it.
If you’re having dinner with your sweetheart and you’re wondering what to wear, then just remember this. You may have fabulous legs, an amazing bottom or the most feminine little feet, but what he’ll be gazing at across the dinner table is, you, from the waist up. How can you make the most of his table top view?
Here are 5 ways to look sexy from the waist up:
Nurture Your Neckline
One of the most feminine spots on any woman is her décolletage- (cleavage produced by low cut neckline). To show off yours make sure to exfoliate this sweet spot, add some perfumed moisturizer and choose a top that highlights to the hilt. No turtlenecks or boring high necks. It’s time for romance. Instead opt for a softly rounded scoop neck, deep v or even off the shoulder look which is so popular right now.
Cozy up to Cashmere
Luxurious Cashmere, velvet and other soft, sumptuous fabrics that will make your sweetie want to reach out and touch you, as if you were a fluffy little kitten.
Dare to Dangle
Save your studs for practical and everyday wear. Swing your head, flip your hair and look like a goddess in a pair of delicious dangling earrings. Paired with a sexy up do that reveals your bare neck, it’s all the jewellery you’ll need.
Lure him with your Lashes
A wink, a nod is all so much sexier when you are wearing long lashes. Try on a dark, lush set or experiment with just a few individual lashes applied to the outer corners of your eyes to make your eyes flutter like a butterfly.
Nix the long nails
If you think longer is sexier, then you need an update. Soft looking subtle nails, medium length, are much more romantic than dark scary claws.
Shimmer with a little Shine
Take advantage of your candlelight dinner by using clothes and make up to deepen your warm glow. Shiny fabrics like metallics add beautiful shimmer to your face by reflecting off a room’s low lighting. A hint of bronzer on your face, neck and shoulders makes you sparkle no matter where you are.